Monday, November 28, 2011

More Heard Museum and Thanksgiving

Lanae, David, Logan and their new puppy, Pepper, came out to McKinney to visit for Thanksgiving!! We had them for a whole week - no escaping our clutches. Well, til they had to go back, lol. Derek loved playing with Pepper. He wouldn't leave her alone, even when she was trying to sleep. Logan showed Derek how to crawl inside Pepper's crate and they were having a blast. I wish I'd gotten pictures of that! Dad Heath deep fried a turkey - OH MY WORD, so good!! I don't think I'll every look at turkey the same way again. Mom Heath and Lanae cooked up lots of yummy sides, including a candied yam side that was amazing. So much food, but we ate it all within about a week. We had so much fun, we mostly forgot to take pictures. Super bummer. However, I managed to take a few pics and some video of the cousins being oober cute together!

Derek likes to paint pictures. He can't wear a shirt and he has to wear my apron to keep the acrylics from ruining clothing. Isn't he so stinking cute!!



Logan loooooved being pulled around in this wagon. Derek was only too happy to oblige.

We also spent a day at the Heard museum. The dinosaurs were still there and Logan was fascinated... and fearless. Derek was a little intimidated this time around, but we kept insisting he interact with the animatronic dinos and he warmed up by the end. Derek liked finding rocks and yelling "ROAR!" at the dinos.

Derek shook the rubbery hand of the "skinny-saurus"

Aren't they such a cute family!! I love Logan's expression. Perfect candid shot.

Derek was a little intimidate by this one. Logan love him!

Kisses for the Apatosaurus!

Derek liked to ride with Daddy

I love how they fixed the T-Rex! Below is a comparison pic from the last time we saw the dinos

Fat T-Rex... not scary

Super tall T-Rex... pretty intimidating



Derek at Nana's house being cute

Friday, November 4, 2011

I'm Proud to be a Latter-Day Saint!

I didn't write this letter, but it expresses my sentiments perfectly. I am so thankful to have a sure knowledge of who I am, where I came from and where I am going. I know Jesus Christ died for me and rose three days later. I know that "through the Atonement of Christ, all mankind may be saved,' and I know that my Father in Heaven knows me personally - and He loves me. The almighty creator of the universe knows my name, my trials, my triumphs and my heart. He cares for me as tenderly (and sometimes more tenderly) than I care for my own son. What a staggering thought to know that I can be like Him someday.

October 14, 2011

Dear Staff Members at First Baptist Dallas,

I’ve tried unsuccessfully to find an email address for Dr. Robert Jeffress, so I’m sending this to all of the members on the First Baptist Dallas staff that I found listed on your website. I hope that at least one of you will forward this on to Pastor Jeffress because I feel it’s important that he have the opportunity to read and understand it.

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Dear Pastor Jeffress,

I’m just one of the millions of people who saw and heard on TV news shows your statements that “Mormonism is a cult” and “not a part of orthodox Christianity”. As a faithful lifelong member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints I felt a strong reaction to those statements, as you might imagine. My remarks here are only my personal thoughts, but I assure you they are heartfelt.

My reaction was twofold. First, I saw your remarks as an unfortunate “below-the-belt” swipe at Mitt Romney in the hopes of advancing your own favorite political candidate. While you certainly have the right to do that, I think many Americans join me in feeling that such a move was beneath a prominent religious leader such as yourself.

Second, as a devoted believer and follower of Jesus Christ I was saddened that you felt the need to speak out against my faith and beliefs. I’m sure there are those who think it was done with malice, but I’ll try to do the Christ-like thing and give you the benefit of the doubt. Perhaps you’ve just been misinformed about “Mormonism” as many others have been.

But it might surprise you to learn that I actually agree with part of what you said, although perhaps for different reasons than you might imagine.

You said that Mitt Romney is “not a Christian” (and by association myself and the other six million-plus Americans who are Latter-day Saints). But I believe you need to be more specific. There are many different kinds or “flavors” of Christians. I agree that the LDS people are not Baptist Christians or Evangelical Christians or Catholic Christians, etc. I will even agree that we’re not part of “orthodox” or “traditional” flavor of Christianity, if by that you mean the post-Nicene church that became the “universal” or “catholic” version of Christendom.

I believe my faith to be the original church of the Corinthians, the Ephesians, and yes, those who were first called Christians in Antioch, - that same church now restored in these latter days. So I call myself a “latter-day Christian", with theological roots that precede the “historical” or “orthodox” version that was the product of the various councils and creeds. That “orthodoxy” eventually became so corrupt and so apostate that the Reformers broke away from it in protest of its having “fallen away” from Biblical truths (2 Thess. 2) and “changed the ordinances” (Isa. 24:5) so that the “faith once delivered to the saints” (Jude 1:3) was no longer recognizable as the church that Jesus organized.

There were many enlightened Christian thinkers and theologians in history who, like Joseph Smith, believed that Christianity had become apostate and that a restoration of the New Testament church of Christ was necessary. John Wesley the founder of Methodism wrote:

It does not appear that these extraordinary gifts of the Holy Ghost were common in the Church for more than two or three centuries. We seldom hear of them after that fatal period when the Emperor Constantine called himself a Christian; . . . From this time they almost totally ceased; . . . The Christians had no more of the Spirit of Christ than the other Heathens . . . . This was the real cause why the extraordinary gifts of the Holy Ghost were no longer to be found in the Christian Church; because the Christians were turned Heathens again, and had only a dead form left.

The Works of John Wesley, vol. 7, pp.26-27

As I’m sure you well know, John Smythe the founder of the Baptists first left his position as a Church of England minister and joined the Separatists, but then dissolved his congregation to re-form it as the first General Baptist church among English expatriates in Amsterdam in 1609. He felt that the “historic” or “orthodox” Christianity of his time had wandered astray, especially with regard to the apostate doctrine of infant baptism. Those first Baptists were considered a “cult” by many Protestants in the “traditional” Christian denominations that persecuted them unmercifully.

Around 1640, Roger Williams of Providence, Rhode Island, founder of the first Baptist church in America refused to continue as pastor on the grounds that there was:

no regularly‑constituted church on earth, nor any person authorized to administer any Church ordinance: nor could there be until new apostles are sent by the great Head of the Church, for whose coming, I am seeking.

(Picturesque America, or the Land We Live In, ed. William Cullen Bryant, New York: D. Appleton and Co., 1872, vol. 1, p. 502.)

If I understand your words correctly your definition of a Christian (and that of most Evangelicals) is a pretty narrow one, far different from the standard meaning found in most dictionaries. Personally I think anyone who accepts Jesus Christ as the Only Begotten Son of God and as his/her personal Savior who died for our sins and was bodily resurrected on the third day is a Christian. C.S. Lewis described such people as “mere” Christians.

But your narrow definition would exclude anyone who:

1. Does not believe in a closed canon of the 66 books of the Protestant Bible.

2. Does not accept the Nicene Creed as an accurate description of the nature of God the Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost.

3. Believes in living prophets and apostles as the “foundation” of Christ’s earthly church.

4. Believes in continuing revelation from God to man.

I could go on. I’m very familiar with the standard arguments against “Mormonism”.

But the Bible says that believers in Christ were first called Christians at Antioch (Acts 11:26). I would respectfully submit that those Christians:

1. Did not believe in a closed canon of scripture. (some of the New Testament had not yet been written.)

2. Did not accept the Nicene Creed as an accurate description of the nature of God the Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost. (it would not be written for 300 years)

3. Believed in living apostles and prophets as the “foundation” of Christ’s earthly church.

4. Believed in continuing revelation from God to man.

So if you’re going to say that Mitt and I are not Christians based on those reasons, you’ll have to say that the believers in Antioch were not Christians either according to your definition.

You said in your Hardball interview that “Mormonism” is a “cult” because:

1. “Mormonism came 1800 years after Jesus Christ”

2. “Mormonism has its own human leader, Joseph Smith”

3. “it has its own set of doctrines”

3. “it has its own religious book, The Book of Mormon, in addition to the Bible”

Your exact following words were: “and so by that definition it is a theological cult”. You made a weak distinction between a theological cult and a sociological one, but most people will not even notice that fine differentiation. It was obvious to any sophisticated viewer that your main goal was to keep repeating the word “cult”. It’s such an inflammatory buzz word that I’m sure your goal is to use it as often as you can to scare people away from “Mormonism” without seriously considering our theology and our beliefs. It’s a word used to end or avoid discussion, not to foster it. As a Latter-day Saint I welcome the opportunity to “stand ready to give a reason for the faith that is in me”, but those who sling around the word “cult” with respect to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints seek to cut off debate rather than to encourage dialog. It’s as though they are afraid of an open and honest discussion.

But following your own definition of “cult” for a moment, I’d like to respectfully submit that:

1. Roman Catholicism came 300 years after Jesus Christ.

2. Roman Catholicism has its own human leader, the Pope (or Peter if you accept the Catholic claims that he was the first Pope)

3. Roman Catholicism has its own set of doctrines (Mariology, transubstantiation, priestly celibacy, veneration of “saints”, indulgences, etc.)

4. Roman Catholicism has its own religious books (9 deuterocanonical more than those found in the Protestant Bible – also used in Eastern Orthodox churches)

And even your own Baptist flavor of Christianity in some ways fits your definition of what makes a cult;

1. “Baptistism” came 1609 years after Jesus Christ

2. “Baptistism” had its own human leader John Smythe – a Church of England minister (see footnote below from the website of the Baptist History and Heritage Society)

3. “Baptistism” had its own unique doctrines, including the “believer’s baptism” of adults.

4. “Baptistism” was considered a cult by the “orthodox” or “traditional” or “historic” Christian denominations of the time. In fact Baptists suffered severe persecution from other Christians who believed in the “mainline” doctrine of infant baptism prevalent in that era. Thousands of Baptists were martyred for baptizing adults.

One of the dictionary definitions of a cult is that is a small isolated group that is out of the mainstream. That certainly does not apply to my church. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the fourth largest religion in America, and the second largest Christian church in Washington, Oregon, and California (after Catholicism). You mentioned that there are 15 million Southern Baptists. By 2012 at the present rate of growth there will be more Latter-day Saints than that.

Pastor Jeffress, in order to be consistent and truthful you would have to admit that the same definition you’ve used to brand “Mormonism” a cult applies at least in part to Roman Catholicism and “Baptistism” as well. Are you willing to say that on national television? I would hope so. I would hope that you’d want to be totally consistent and truthful.

Thank you for your time. I’m attaching a summary I wrote of what I believe happened to “the faith once delivered to the saints”. There was a great apostacy that fundamentally changed the New Testament church of Jesus Christ into something so different that those Christians at Antioch or Peter or Paul would not have recognized it in the Dark Ages that came upon the earth. (Amos 8:12) That apostacy required the “restitution of all things” prophesied in Acts 3:21 to occur before Christ’s return. That restitution or restoration of original Biblical Christianity was what was looked forward to by Roger Williams.

I testify to you that that restoration has come, and the original Christianity is back on the earth in its fullness as The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If you would like to investigate these claims I’ll be happy to “bring forth my strong reasons” for “the faith that is in me.” I would welcome a thoughtful dialog.

Cordially yours,

Robert Starling

A Latter-day Christian

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

My Funny Funny Boy

My dear sister-in-law, Liz, got me hooked on Pinterest. If you don't know what it is, go HERE - it's awesome. I am bored no more and I've been doing a craft, activity or recipe every day for a couple weeks now. Pumpkin snickerdoodles, pumpkin rice krispy treats and chicken caesar sliders are AMAZING!!! So is this meal-in-a-muffin-tin idea. You can find that link HERE. The idea is that you fit 6 different foods in front of your kid at the same time (but there isn't enough of the favorite food to fill them up) so they have to eat a little of everything. Clever, right?

Derek loooved it!

Top, left to right: edamame (still in the pod), oven baked fried chicken, cheese sticks
Bottom, left to right: sliced bananas, diced hot dog, black grapes

I haven't seen that kid scarf a meal so fast in a long time.

How not to wear a shirt - brought to you by Derek

He thoroughly enjoyed the attention. And probably the very weird feeling you get when your shirt gets stuck in this position. :)



For those of you not very familiar with Tammy - she's very tactile. When she's testing texture, she's usually also smelling and seeing and other kinds of stuff. She brings her fingers up to her nose and smells whatever it is (usually buttercream of some sort) and rubs it between her fingers. Derek has seen her do this. This is his version. I have no idea where he got the sound effect - Tammy doesn't make that sound.

Monday, October 31, 2011

Trick or Treating!

My little pumpkin boy! Derek was so cute this Halloween! This is the second year he's been some sort of a pumpkin though. Mitch has dibbs on next year - I think Derek's going to be a cowboy with a penciled in beard. :) Might change though. Nana, Papi and Aunt Val picked us up to go trick-or-treating with Aunt Jenn and my cousins, Ally and Tyler. Their neighborhood had some awesome houses (wish I'd thought to take pictures of those!). I was kind of pre-occupied keeping an eye on my little guy. Aunt Val took him up to most of the houses (thanks Val!), so I was able to enjoy the scenery. I'm glad we didn't hit many houses - less candy for Mitch and I to eat! To be fair, though, I let Derek eat the M&Ms and a couple Crunch bars. The rest will be going in Mitch's lunchbox for work. Without further ado, here's the little pumpkin boy!!

Aunt Val got the best pictures of him that night!


Finally saying "Cheese" to the camera!






What Halloween isn't complete without responsible parents scaring their kids?



Before he got dressed, his cousins handcuffed him. :P

He was excited to go trick-or-treating with his cousins, Aunt Val, Nana and Great-Aunt Jen

Check out that cool skeleton candy basket Nana got him!

He was fascinated by all the kids in costumes

Derek wasn't the first to wear this costume... I was! This is me when I was five, I think. All my sisters but the youngest have worn this outfit. I'm amazed it's still in such pristine condition. Here's to hoping the tradition will live on!



Derek figured out what the piggy says...

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Cowboy Derek and the Pumpkin Patch

A couple Sundays ago, I brought Derek into my room to play while I finished getting ready. He found Aunt Lanae's cowboy hat and paraded around, entirely too pleased with himself. He loves to play with Grandpa's baseball hat, so a cowboy hat was just another plaything to him. Don't worry, Lanae - we put it back safe and sound.



My Mom and Rick invited us to go to a pumpkin patch about an hour south of McKinney. After a bit of a rocky (and late) start, we met up with them and my Aunt, Uncle and a few of my cousins. My cousins are a few years older than Derek and were more excited about the bouncy houses and tractor rides, but Derek was easily entertained with massive pumpkins. Good thing for me, because I had some pictures I wanted to take. We all got together later that evening to carve pumpkins and watch the 4th game in the World Series. Go Rangers!

You know all those cutesy family pictures people take with props? This was my attempt.

Kind of worked, but he kept grabbing the blocks

Folding arms didn't work very well either. Oh well, he's cute!


He's such a little dude!




Jailbird!


My awesome cousins!

Family!

Mitch was so patient with Derek. Derek kept "asking" to ride the merry-go-round so Mitch squeezed his big frame into the itty bitty space. Twice. This is Derek's excited face. No happy squeals, just quiet. He's such a funny little boy!

Love this face! Looks like another Harry Potter spell moment to me.

Holding out his hand to show me his rocks

And of course, the Big Green (John Deere) Tractor!

Witch's Brew with Nana




Petting the "Puppy"



Like I mentioned, we went back to Uncle Tim and Aunt Jen's house to carve pumpkins and watch the Rangers battle the Cardinals in the World Series. It was fun to hang out with family and roast pumpkin seeds, eat Uncle Tim's pork (YUM!!) and Aunt Jen's cookies (YUM YUM!!) and play with little Jazzy (the Chug). Derek was surprisingly not afraid of Jazzy or Izzy (the boxer). Last time he'd seen dogs, he was not too excited to play. This time, Izzy licked his face, followed him around and pushed him over a couple times and he didn't seem to mind. At first though, he wanted to be in my lap. When Izzy left the immediate vicinity, he'd get down to wander, but when he made eye contact with Izzy (who would immediately start heading his way), Derek would drop everything and run to the nearest lap. Too funny. He stopped this after a bit, but it was funny while it lasted. My little boy is growing up! *sniff sniff*

Mom and Ally took hand carvers to this massive pumpkin.

Then Uncle Tim broke out the Dremel automatic carver. Short work of three pumpkins

Derek wasn't sure what to think of the pumpkin guts

He figured out what the scraper was for pretty quick though!