Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Coming Home!

Heidi's first night on Earth went really well! She slept for 6 hours, then woke for a marathon 2 hour feeding at 4 am. My postpartum contractions were still pretty rough, but Dr. Rajala decided to send us home that morning. The morning and early afternoon were a flurry of paperwork, final checkups and packing up our gear, but we finally got our discharge and headed home about 24 hour after Heidi's arrival! The kids were absolutely thrilled to finally see Heidi outside my tummy and be able to snuggle her. Tammy was happy to be the first to lift the blanket and see the sweet newborn face. I'm so glad the kids were so excited to welcome their new sister with open arms and nothing but love.

 Nurse Esther completed the final checks before we were given the green light to get Heidi dressed and ready to go home!

 Surprise!

 Everybody loves her soft newborn cheeks

 "Look at this Teeny!"

 Hand sanitizer for everyone

 Clara assumes the baby-holding position, haha

 Heidi has such a Derek face here!!

 My 4 babies! We are so blessed!!

 Our sweet Teddy Bear has such a tender heart. Bryce spoke sweetly to Heidi and we can tell he loved her from the moment he saw her. 

So many kisses for Heidi... the first of many, many more!

Monday, April 17, 2017

Heidi's Birth Story

Unfortunately I waited a long time to get to this post (thank you retro-dating!) and I've lost many of the details of this precious day, but I want to share what I can remember. 

My heart rate has been crazy high with Heidi's pregnancy, so Dr. Bruce Rajala, my OB, decided that I would be induced the day after Easter, although I've been 3 cm dilated and 90% effaced for about 10 days now. He did tell me not to ruin his Easter weekend, haha.

Mitchell and I reported to the hospital at 5 am for my induction. I had my IV and pitocin by 7:30 and decided to get my epidural as soon as the anesthesiologist was available. He came in around 10 and Mitchell put on his headphones and focused on his laptop - the epidural needles freak him out a bit. I explained my previous difficulties with the epidurals and he said that was an easy fix by going up an additional vertebra (FOR FUTURE REFERENCE)!! I reminded him again that I have a history of heart complications with epidurals but he just poo-pooed me and told my nurse to let him know if I developed any problems. Sure enough, a few minutes later, she had to page him back. He gave me a shot of adrenaline just as my OB walked in to check on my progress. My HR/BP improved for a couple minutes and the doctors started chatting. After a couple minutes, my HR/BP dropped again and the nurse had to interrupt them with a stern "hey," haha! After another shot, I started breathing more easily and my HR/BP stabilized again. Whew! Mitchell was thankfully oblivious the whole time I was throwing up and struggling to breathe, but I'm glad my doctors were able to sort it out.

My mom, Amy and Kelly showed up about an hour later. Kelly had to head back home to teach school the next day, so we all took bets on when Heidi would arrive... hopefully before 2! I wasn't dilating though... I was still only at 4 cm at noon! Dr. Rajala came in and broke my water to get things moving at noon and, when my nurse checked me about 15 minutes later, Heidi had crawled back up higher into my uterus!! We had just been joking that Amy had done the same thing during her delivery, but it wasn't really funny to be the one delivering. ;) 

At 3 pm, I started to dilate and was 6 cm. Bella called her principal and he gave her permission to take the next day off. Woohoo! The nurse started to get things prepped to go and told me to let her know when I felt any pressure to push, since the epidural was working beautifully. Around 4 pm, I felt like there was definitely something happening and, sure enough, Heidi was fixing to make her debut!! My mom grabbed my camera and snapped all these pictures. Thank you so much, Mom!! The nurse quickly got me set up to push and the work began. Val nonchalantly strolled into the room after the second push, quite to the startled amusement of the nurses when Bella told them she was another sister. After three more pushes, Heidi was born at 4:23 pm!! She was 7 lbs, 7 oz (just like Clara!) and 20.5 inches long.

Mitchell had asked me a few hours earlier what I thought of Amy cutting the cord this time and I agreed that would be a neat experience for her. Dr. Rajala didn't even bat an eye when we asked him to hand her the scissors. It took two cuts to get through the thick umbilical cord, and her wide-eyed expression of awe was very sweet to see. 

Dr. Rajala sunctioned Heidi's nose and mouth and then the nurses set her straight on the bare skin of my chest. The hospital required one hour of skin to skin immediately after birth and I loved every minute of it!! She was so sweet and cuddly and calmed down almost the second the nurses covered us with a warmed blanket. She was content to curl and uncurl her fingers and just lay there listening to my heartbeat and the world around her. It's always a surreal experience to finally hold my babies and hear them make all the newborn snuffles and noises that I love so much. 

I'm so, so glad that my sisters and my mom were able to be present for Heidi's birth! There was a sweet spirit present as she entered mortality and I hope they were able to feel that joy and wonder. Even with the epidural removed for over an hour, my legs were still pretty dead so they wheeled my entire bed into the recovery wing. Heidi was cleaned up and everyone got to take a turn snuggling her. She is so calm and sweet and we're already smitten.  

Traditional last-time-we-have-to-hug-bending-over pic!

Bella and Amy waiting for things to get going (and soooo glad they missed the epidural, haha)

 PUSH!

 She's out and she's crying... thank heaven!

 Aunt Amy cutting the cord

 We've waited a long time to cuddle you, sweetheart

 The first time I felt the overwhelming rush of mother love and joy with Heidi

 Val made it just in time!

 She liked to snuggle her face into my chest, so I had to check to make sure she could breathe

 Shaking hands with Dr Rajala. He was very quick and efficient about the whole process.

 Mom and baby

 I love this picture. My mom and Amy are so happy, Mitchell is smitten, and I'm so glad she's here and healthy... and I get the first snuggles this time!

 Heidi on the warmer getting her shots and measurements. She cleans up nicely!

 Welcome to the big, wide world sweet girl! I just love soft newborn skin.

 Under the watchful eye of Daddy

 Daddy and his "Treasure"

Auntie Val and Heidi

Auntie Bella and Heidi

Monday, October 31, 2016

October Compliation

 10/5 - Mommy and Daughter

 10/5 - Bryce and Bauer are great friends!

 10/7 - I was able to surprise Derek with Costco pizza to eat during school lunch. He loved it!

 10/7 - Clara has really started to develop a love of coloring. Yay!

 10/7 - Three little monkeys climbed into my bed

 10/8 - This is how Clara dressed herself today, hahahahahaha! She loves owls right now.

10/11 - We love building forts!

 10/12 - We babysat Oakley today. These two girls love twirly skirts!

 10/17 - Mitchell let the kids excavate his Star Wars coin kit (the plastic coins are embedded in a rock matrix that looks like Han Solo in carbonite).

 10/21 - Clara and Bryce built their own temples! Bryce says he and Emeri are going to get married in the temple he built, hahahahahaha! :D

 10/24 - Gogurts at lunch are always a hit

 10/24 - The Burton boys came over to play today! We love the climbing gym!

10/25 - Grandpa and Grandma Bazemore and Aunt Alex sent Bryce a Paw Patrol watch for his birthday. Paw Patrol is one of his favorite shows right now!

Saturday, October 29, 2016

Gender Reveal for Baby #4

Gender reveal day! We had So many friends and family come over to help us celebrate and have a fun time. The kids loved the mystery of the cans of silly string and had a blast spraying each other and running around the yard. Bryce couldn't get his can to spray and Clara was somewhat traumatized by the experience, but I think everyone else had fun. We're so excited to welcome our little baby....

 Most of the kids lined up and ready to grab a mystery can of silly string (on the right)

Getting ready to shoot...

 IT'S A.....

Yay PINK!!

 Bryce wasn't happy to be shot without shooting back and Clara just stood there and screamed

 Emeri showed her can who's boss

 Aunt Jenn and Ally even got in on the silly string, courtesy of Preston, haha!

Beckett and Mallory were happy to watch the chaos unfold. Good choice, haha.

Tuesday, October 25, 2016

Baby #4 ULTRASOUND!!

Well, this pregnancy hasn't really gone as I had planned, but I finally got a due date and and ultrasound after visiting Hope Women's Center in McKinney. Since we're in between insurance at the moment and I meed a proof of pregnancy to apply for insurance, the wonderful ladies at Hope got me set up with an ultrasound to confirm pregnancy (haha, the raging morning sickness is proof enough for me), number of babies (eek!) and estimated due date. I only have one baby in there but, heaven help me, is that baby active! The ultrasound tech struggled to get a heartbeat because the baby was moving around so much that another, more experienced tech, came in, grabbed her hand and pushed so hard she pinned the baby just long enough to get three good heartbeats before the baby wiggled out. At one point, we saw the baby plant both feet on the opposite side of the uterus and straighten his/her legs completely. Woof.

It was a bittersweet experience. The clinic doesn't perform abortions but they do referrals and the nurses I met (Melinda, Karyn, Rose, Ju) were all so excited that I was excited about this baby, had planned for this pregnancy, and absolutely intended to keep the baby (not to mention that I have a committed, monogamous relationship)... it was so sad. I saw Melinda in an office and stopped in to tell her the good news (just one baby, due date and the gender) and she started crying. She was apparently having a hard day and told me that this was the best news she had heard and it made her day. Being a hormonal mess, I started crying too and it was a sweet moment to be able to share the joy of life with someone who admitted that she doesn't get to see that very often. The clinic has life-size plastic foam models of babies at various gestational periods and Karyn pulled out the 14 week baby and let me hold it while I was getting my ultrasound. It was an amazing experience to be able to "hold" my baby and Mitchell seemed particularly fascinated with it, holding in his palm and commenting a couple times about how tiny and perfect it was. I can't wait to hold MY baby in my arms and I'm so glad to finally have a definitely due date and be able to get insurance so I can start having regular prenatal visits.

Look at that sweet little face!

Wednesday, August 31, 2016

August Compilation

8/1 - Derek fell asleep on the couch and Clara took care not to wake him up

8/1 - I launched my business, Memories Abound, today! Here's to hoping it takes off.

8/4 - our temporary foster dog. Derek called him Torch after his favorite dragon from the How To Train Your Dragon TV show. The Olympics just started up and I thought that was appropriate.

8/4 - Poor guy had infections, heartworms, was underweight and abused, but he was so sweet with me and the kids. Just put his big ol head in my lap while I rubbed his ears. Carolyn changed his name to Duke.

8/11 - Bryce is my hummus buddy. Any time I pull out the pretzel chips or cucumbers, he tries to grab the hummus. Love spending time with my babies! 

 8/11 - I snapped a cool photo of this grasshopper on the back fence

 8/14 - I love my LuLaRoe clothing! LuLaRoe is a boutique consultant-based company that makes cute modest clothes. My visiting teaching companion is a consultant and Mallory introduced me to their incredibly comfortable clothes. 

 8/16 - My silly boy. He is a big help when we unload groceries. Love my Derek!

 8/18 - Gorgeous sunset tonight!!!! :D

8/20 - Impromptu nacho picnic dinner with "ninja turtles and the dinosaurs" (Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles Blast From the Past) - their favorite movie right now.

8/23 - The boys sleep surrounded by their "babies" but Clara rarely sleeps with any stuffed animals. Had to memorialize this sweet moment.

 8/26 - All the kids love watching Derek play the harder games like Minion Run. He likes the attention.

8/29 - Kamryn and Clara are usually fighting or staring each other down. This was a momentous occasion!